Yes Parineeti we can completely understand you. After being single for a while, you contemplate your life and try to understand the reasons on why you are still single, despite being the ultimate girl, any guy can ever have.
1.You believe that your Raj or Rahul is out there!
With movies like DDLJ, Kuch Kuch Hota hai and alike, you have grown accustomed to the story of having a perfect romance in your life. Such movies have created a high standard for every other guy who wishes to date you. You would like to have Rahul, Rahul-like or no one!
2. You want nothing less than fun.
Seeing your other friends in a relationship, you realize that you don’t want anyone right now. Sure it’s good when they act cute and it’s great when they are romantic but it’s ugly when they fight and you yourself wouldn’t want to go through that pain.
3. Because friends are for life.
With every passing time, you realize that friends are the only chosen people who have been constant in your life. They have helped in a lot of things by being by your side. For instance, when you ordered a lot of food and couldn’t finish by yourself, who was there? Or who held your hair when you were puking after acting crazy after a few drinks? These are the moments that count and you just want more of these moments because as soon as you get a boyfriend, the time you spend with your friends cut to half.
4. People are intimidated by you
After being single for a life, you have developed a sense of confidence in your independence. This kinda confidence is really scary for someone who wishes to approach you. Even the most over-confident guy might second guess on his decision to approach you.
5. Your life goals are important
You have imagined your life in a certain way and you wish to live like that. It can be anything, right from being at the top of your career to traveling to the countries on your bucket list. All these goals are solo and so you wish to travel light.
6. Commitment issues!
No not you, but the guys these days are just difficult to put up with. Their preferences have changed and most guys don’t want commitment. Ever wondered though why you keep bumping with the ‘most’?
7. You are lost in your own world.
When there is a cute guy who is trying to make an eye contact with you but in your mind you are lost in three different plots about your life while trying to pick the best lip shade for yourself so you fail to even notice someone noticing you.