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Having Orgasm During Sex A Difficult Task? Ask Your Partner To Do This!

It was the night before my best friend’s wedding, I hear my friends giggling at something they might have chosen to talk on, when I was off to make them a coffee. While I offered them the cup of companion, my best friend was too nervously chuckling avoiding anyone’s eye contact. Upon asked, one of my friend said, “Be isko pata nahi orgasm kya hota hai”, while the other said, “Yaar, actually mujhe bhi nahi pata exactly, have just heard it is difficult for women.”

Being a Bibliophile, I read everything I come across and I understand my friend’s questions on ‘Orgasm’, a rarely discussed topic. To all the women, married, unmarried and to-be brides, here is the solution for all your questions on orgasm, the climax of your passionate sex with your love!

What Is Orgasm?

When you are aroused during foreplay or dirty talks, there’s an increased blood flow in the body causing your muscles tightened especially the genitals. Pleasure out of sex makes it a reverse process. During intercourse women feel rhythmic contractions in the vagina, and the body returns to its pre-arousal state giving you the most relieved feeling called orgasm. How great is Orgasm. Isn’t?

Orgasm hits the lower part of the vagina, in the uterus, anus, and pelvic floor. About 10 percent of women also ejaculate fluid from the urethra at orgasm. Every woman has unique experience of orgasm but common is heavy breathing, sweating, body vibrations, altered consciousness and an urge to moan.

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Women Takes Longer To Hit Orgasm Than Men. Is This True?

This can be considered a difficult one to answer! Often heard but this is not entirely true. For a woman, the average time taken to orgasm is 10-20 minutes or more and for men it is between 7-14 minutes. The whole idea is the natural anatomy. The female equivalent for penis is the clitoris. Considering it’s size and dimensions, it is not surprising that clitoris takes longer time to stimulate during sex. While men can easily stimulate penis considering the size, while it delays a bit late for women to orgasm.

However, it doesn’t necessary be the reason. It can be the sort of stimulation involved, a sexual communication with the partner and also how passionate is your love session. Ask your partner to find a G-spot in your body and reach orgasm before he opt’s the main course 😉

You Have Not Yet Felt Orgasm? Read Why?

  • If you are having a good sex and still not having orgasm, blame your medications if any. That makes it nearly impossible to orgasm.
  • Some women do not feel orgasm from penetration alone. So, next time use your hands or a vibrator to stimulate your clitoris.
  • The lesser the time given to foreplay, longer the time you reach orgasm. Ask your guy to make you beg for penetration via foreplay.
  • Having sex but thinking about STD’s, pregnancy and other tensions? Forget them for this time at least. Just be in the act completely!
  • Feeling nervous, uncomfortable or shy can be the obstacles. Talk to your partner first, be ready and then hit the bed.
  • Most importantly, it is about finding what you like the most. So, masturbate, find out then tell your partner.

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Ask Your Partner THIS!

  • Tell him not to rush you on answering, did you feel anything or have you reached? More relaxed you are, the chances to reach orgasm increases.
  • Sex starts long before the clothes come off. Ask him to play some nasties.
  • Tell him to appreciate the way you look naked and not to make you more conscious.
  • Make sure he knows, which body area of yours gives you the most rapid stimulation.
  • Keep trying new things. Make sure it is not harmful for both of you.
  • Oral sex is an easy key.

I won’t say much on this, just talk to your partner now and share this interesting information with your marrying soon friend. I am sure she will be thankful to you and yes, don’t be ashamed this is so natural and healthy. All the best ladies!

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