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How to Handle Your First Date?

Going for the first time on a date can be like writing a grads examination. You start questioning yourself, what should you wear? Which color will he like? Should you wear any makeup? Should you take a cab or drive your car? Will he ask you to accompany him home or he would be gentleman to drop you home? These are standard questions that not only women but also men of this century have. And if you are a woman you may be more sensitive to these questions.

Here is how you can tackle these questions yourself without anyone’s help. These 5 Tips can make your date successful, if it is really a date.

  • Never think what you should wear: Yes that doesn’t mean that you wear a swim suit on your date to a five star hotel. But definitely you should not look like a bride who is eager to get connected. Generally over-thinking on this issue can make you weary and at the end you may wear anything. Now that is what you should do. On your first date you should wear your favorite dress, it is not necessary that it should be a million dollar dress. Yes, if you know what kind of dress your beloved like you can try that too, as that will show your beloved how caring you are.
  • Color should never be a topic of discussion: Wear whatever color you like, but try not to wear the color your beloved hates. If you don’t know which color your beloved hates or likes choose to wear pink or white. You can always win the debate with Pink, as girls are always related with pink. Generally, white dress makes girls look elegant and stylish above average, besides 43% of men like white.
  • Don’t cheat yourself: Wearing too much makeup is like cheating yourself as well as your beloved. Whom are you trying to gull? Your future relationship should not be based on some kind of a lie. Wear slight makeup like nail polish, lipstick, lip gloss, eye liner, etc. Avoid using makeup with high amount of bleach in it. Also avoid too much powder, try to look as natural as you can.
  • Don’t be nervous: Whoever the person is, is actually your beloved and the person would like to connect to you in the simplest yet strongest way possible. So just be confident and be what you are. In nervousness you may end-up acting silly or stupid, just opposite your real character. Take it as a blind date. Where you need to be you first then something else.
  • Never boast yourself: Don’t talk much about your work, your designation and money. Try to keep the talk limited to your social and personal self, financial designation and ego can make things worse.

In simple words being self in every way and manner is the real key to your successful date. It is not necessary that your first date should be perfect, so try enjoying the small moments you get from the huge amount of time you and your beloved spend together.

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