Dates….especially First dates are always interesting. For girls, dates are nothing less than a dreamy fairytale story with flowers, gifts, songs and anything you can imagine about. Knock… Knock…wake up from your day dreaming session and have a check on the reality. First dates are always Tricky…Confusing…Difficult and sometimes absolutely Mad! But, when you are out dating a guy, there is a certain restriction that you should remind yourself about when asking questions to him. Yes, there certainly are some Do’s and Don’ts that you need to follow on your first date, especially if you don’t want to spoil the mood. So, if you are looking for a partner and meeting new guys frequently, here are some Basic Questions that you must Avoid asking on the first meeting.
- How much do you earn?
A strictly No No question! Common gal, this is your first date with the guy and it’s really not fair to load him with such heavy questions, especially finances. You may know about his earnings from his profile or relatives, but asking this to him directly is not a good start.
- Are you single?
Are you kidding? Well, this is your first date and obviously if the guy is here meeting you, he has to be single. And in case he says he was previously in a relation, make sure you don’t ask him further questions about his ex. Concentrate on your meeting, your date and not the ex-affair.
- What went wrong between you and your ex?
So, your guy just said that he broke off with his ex and is now single. Well, that doesn’t mean you shower him with more questions about his ex. Respect his emotions and get over it.
- Do you want to get married?
Well, never ask the guy if he really wants to get married or not! This is your first date, and instead of hitting hard with intense questions like these, simply make sure that you enjoy the date and spend time understanding each other. Questions like getting married and all can wait for the next meeting for sure.
- How do I look?
A typical girly question! Well, you can ask this question to your bestie and also to your fiance, but asking it to a guy on the very first date may actually create a wrong impression of you. It may show how self-centered you are! Or even create the impression of being a silly dumb-headed girl. So, skip such girly questions and focus on knowing his interests and understanding whether or not he is looking forward into this relation.
- Have you ever been in love?
Again a wrong question! First dates are supposed to be all about you and your partner, not about people who were in your life. Simply skip these questions and focus more on your relation, understanding and chemistry with the guy.
- What are your near future plans?
Are you here planning your future or meeting a guy who may get interested in marrying you? Well, discussing future plans here is not the right thing to do. Simply focus more on chilling out and enjoy each others company.
- Do you like kids?
Kids…? LOL…sure everyone loves kids, but are you like planning on having babies right from your first date? Asking about kids on the first date is a sure question you must avoid.
So, now that you are planning on meeting a guy, make sure you know what questions to ask and which ones to avoid. Have a fun-filled exciting date!