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Stay Away From Comments That Will Annoy A Pregnant Woman

Though everyone is concerned about the wellbeing of a pregnant woman; not everyone knows what and when to ask or say to a woman who is on her way to start a family. The lady is hassled, tired and tensed about the pregnancy, so certain comments affect her badly.

It is a known fact that pregnant ladies undergo many hormonal changes but reminding her repeatedly will make her more irritated and angry. So, though you are aware of the fact, try not to talk about it.

Weighing more disturbs a pregnant woman: The lady has to live the ordeal of her visits to the Gynec for checkups and discussions. Spare her from the comments about overweight. No one would like their weight being made a general topic of conversation.

The curiosity to feel her tummy: Wanting to feel a pregnant woman’s tummy is not right. This privilege is not for all; though the lady is thrilled about the baby kicking away she would surely be offended if everyone touched her. More so, if the offender keeps saying how big her waistline is.

It is not right to talk about what other women experienced in their pregnancy: A pregnant woman has a lot of anxiety. So, why add to her worries by talking about the experiences of other pregnant women. The incidents about how others are affected by the queasiness and other feelings are not what she would like to hear.

Guessing the baby’s sex is a big no no: Though you may be right whether the baby would be a girl or boy, it is not right to suggest or say so. You may be thrilled to know that your friend’s pregnancy is twins, be cool; don’t make any comments about it day in and day out. You may offend the mother to be.

pregnant woman shoppingComment about smallness of her tummy: You may talk about the small size of her tummy as an appreciation, but definitely she will not take it lightly. She may be worried about the size and the baby’s well being, so her getting annoyed is only expected.

Not all pregnant women are fragile: If you see a pregnant woman carrying a slightly heavy shopping bag, don’t panic. Many ladies are seen to doing their daily chores till the due date. In fact, the activity helps the lady at the final labor contractions. So, unless the lady asks for help don’t try to help.

Last but not the least, never mention the hormonal changes: Pregnancy causes a lot of hormonal changes. So what? Don’t rub her on the wrong side by talking about it. On the other hand, try and be more supportive about her needs and assure her a full support.

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